In 2024, how much does the truth matter, really?

The answer should always be always, and, goodness, is there any doubt that we need to work more diligently toward that target again? In an era where misinformation spreads faster than a viral meme, it’s time we take a hard look at our relationship with the truth. Have we lost our way so drastically that we can no longer distinguish fact from fiction? It’s high time we made a more vigorous effort to do the right thing because, at the end of the day, truth is the right thing to do.

In our modern world, truth often feels like a slippery eel, wriggling out of our grasp just when we think we’ve got hold of it. We hear phrases like “my truth” and “your truth,” but let’s face it: truth isn’t a customizable smoothie where you pick your favorite ingredients. It is more like gravity — universal, non-negotiable, and not subject to personal whims. We all need to acknowledge and accept this universal truth.

Imagine if everyone could define their own gravity. One person floats to work, another sticks to the ceiling, and someone else drifts off into space. Chaotic, right? Similarly, when we bend the truth to fit our narratives, we create a world where reality becomes as unpredictable as a squirrel on caffeine.

Let’s discuss lies, specifically the big ones. You know, the whoppers that make your jaw drop, your eyebrows shoot up to your hairline, and your head nay-shake. Curiously, the bigger the lie, the more it seems to unite people. It’s like a bizarre social glue that binds believers together, creating an echo chamber where the lie reverberates louder and louder.

For example, take the age-old myth of the Loch Ness Monster. Despite countless scientific expeditions debunking its existence, Nessie enthusiasts remain unwavering. They gather, share stories, and reinforce each other’s beliefs. It’s a community built on a shared, albeit fantastical, narrative. The bigger the fabrication, the tighter the bond among its believers.

Why do people reflexively opt for deceit? What are the apparent advantages of not telling the truth? For some, it’s about gaining power, influence, or financial gain. In politics, for example, bending the truth can rally a base, secure votes, or discredit an opponent. In business, misleading statements can inflate stock prices or hide financial woes. But history tells us that these so-called advantages (not to mention a clear absence of shame) are fleeting and come at a significant cost — loss of trust, credibility, and, ultimately, integrity.

Fact-checking and verification should be second nature to us. In an age of information overload, fact-checking has become more critical than ever. It’s not just about verifying the facts; it’s about cultivating a mindset of skepticism and critical thinking. Before forming opinions or sharing information, seek reliable sources and cross-check the data. This practice helps us stay informed and protects us from the dangers of misinformation.

One of the best lists of websites for fact-checking is produced by the College of Staten Island. It’s a guide developed by the Research Center at the CUNY Graduate School of Journalism. Access the list here, which includes a helpful, short bio about each site. I checked several sites offering such lists; everything on this list is found on other sites’ lists.

Politics undeniably influences how we perceive and interact with the truth. It’s not about pointing fingers at the right or left; it’s about recognizing that misinformation knows no political boundaries. Both sides of the aisle have been guilty of bending the truth to fit their agendas. It’s up to us, as citizens, to demand better. We must hold our leaders accountable and insist on transparency and honesty. Telling the truth should not be a revolutionary act.

Again, there is no good or bad truth. There is only truth. And it is a powerful force that can bring clarity, build trust, and ultimately set us free.

• Lead by Example: Whether you’re a parent, a manager, or just a friend, your commitment to the truth sets a powerful example. When others see you valuing honesty, they’re more likely to follow suit.
• Encourage Open Dialogue: Create environments — at home, work, or social gatherings — where people feel safe to speak the truth.
• Encourage questions, share perspectives, and express concerns without fear of judgment or retribution. When people know their voices matter, they’re more inclined to be honest.
• Celebrate Honesty: Recognize and celebrate moments of truthfulness. Whether it’s a child admitting they broke a vase or a colleague owning up to a mistake, acknowledging and appreciating their honesty reinforces the value of truth.
• Be Compassionate: Understand that the truth can sometimes be difficult to hear and even more challenging to tell. Approach honesty with compassion and empathy. When someone is brave enough to be truthful, especially in tough situations, offer support and understanding.

• Stronger Relationships: Trust is the bedrock of any meaningful relationship. When you’re honest with those around you, you build a foundation of trust that can withstand the test of time.
• Personal Growth: Facing the truth about ourselves — our strengths, weaknesses, and everything in between — allows us to grow and improve. Self-awareness is a powerful tool for personal development.
• Peace of Mind: When you live truthfully, you don’t have to keep track of lies or worry about being caught in a deception. This peace of mind is invaluable and leads to a more relaxed and fulfilling life.
• Credibility and Respect: In both personal and professional spheres, being known as someone who values the truth earns you credibility and respect. Or it certainly should! People are more likely to trust and rely on someone who embraces, nonstop, the truth.

Humor has an interesting way of making the truth more palatable and even enjoyable. It’s like adding a spoonful of sugar to help the medicine go down.

In various aspects of life, honesty and a touch of humor can enhance communication and build stronger relationships. In the workplace, when a boss presents a less-than-stellar project idea, rather than simply agreeing, you might point out that the presentation was “an interesting concept, but let’s brainstorm ways to make it even better.” Or, with a smidgen of humor, “the idea has potential … in an alternate universe.” You know what I mean. Rather than not telling the truth, consider messages to soften the impact of criticism and encourage constructive dialogue.

In a world where the lines between fact and fiction often blur, embracing THE TRUTH is more important than ever. It isn’t about being rigid or harsh or pointing fingers; it’s about grounding ourselves in reality and fostering genuine connections with those around us. It’s about seeking the truth because truth is an undeniable beacon to guide us through the murky waters of misinformation and deceit. We must uphold it.

As I wrap up this journey through the landscape of truth, I leave you with this final thought: May your life be filled with the liberating light of truth, the joy of genuine connections, and the freedom that comes from living authentically. And remember, when in doubt, just tell the truth — it’s always the best story you can tell.